DUPED

A state social worker came to see me. That alone is not blog-worthy, considering how I arrived here in the first place, 

What makes the social worker's visit blog-worthy is the unprofessional and disrespectful way the short interview was conducted.

I was in the bathroom. There was a knock on my door. I thought it was my aide coming to help me. The door was opened by a person I had never seen before. They were not an aide but it didn't bother me because new staff members were always there. The person didn't tell me their name or show me any identification. They wanted to ask me a few questions. 

The woman saw me on the toilet, attached to the stand-up lift. "As you can see, I'm a little busy," I said. They offered to come back. They were in the bathroom with me, I was exposed with no dignity left. What was the difference? People are always coming in when I am in the bathroom.   I was mortified. I am sure this was the first time someone has been interviewed on the toilet. The interview took five minutes. 

I went downstairs to find out who the staff member was. No one knew. Someone heard my conversation and said the individual I described was from the state. I was told that they were holding their ID in their hand. They didn't show it to me.

I feel tricked. I feel violated too. The woman should have left immediately when she saw I was on the toilet. Why was it okay for them to talk with me when I was in a vulnerable position? Why didn't they show me any ID? Instead, they led me to believe they worked at this facility. 

I want to warn people with disabilities. Always ask to see someone's ID before speaking to them. Never assume anything. If this happened to me. It can happen to you. 












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